shama lama

Relationship Survey. It could be interesting. Pop one in my ask.
A: Who do you like, and why? this guy. and because i think hes amazing.
B: Have you ever been in love? If yes, how many times, and how do you know it was love? I will get back to you on that one
C: Longest relationship you've ever been in, and why did it end? 15 months. He lied to me about everything and he sucked in bed
D: Have you ever changed for someone? If yes, how? not really. At least i dont think so
E: Pretend I'm your ex, what do you want to say to me? walk away before i run you over with your own car.
F: Have you ever been cheated on? yeup
G: Have you ever cheated? No
H: Would you date someone who's known for cheating? If yes, why? no. settin yourself up like shit
I: What's the most important part of a relationship?
J: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? neither anymore. relationships are over rated.
K: When you are dating someone, do you believe in going on "breaks"? no. "breaks" just mean you want to go fuck someone else. stop lying.
L: How many people have you ever hooked up with? 4
M: What's one thing you regret saying or not saying, doing or not doing in a previous relationship? I regret staying in a relationship that i was not happy in for way too long
N: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex? 17-18
O: Do you believe in the phrase, "Age is just a number?" Why or why not? no. Age DOEs make a difference. There are exceptions to every rule of course.
P: What about "love at first sight"? Why or why not? Hell. No. you cant LOVE someone off their looks.
Q: Turn on's? Intelligence, respects women, abs, dominant sexual personality
R: Turn off's? weakness, emotional, sub sexual personality, lack of abs, stupidity
S: What do you consider a deal breaker? respecting my decisions
T: How do you know it's time to end a relationship? when his name showing on the screen of my phone pisses me the fuck off lol
U: Are you currently in a relationship? If yes, for how long? If no, how long have you been single? no. been single for...a month and some change? not sure
V: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends? im still friends with someone ive dated
W: Do you think people should date their friends? BAD IDEA
X: How many relationships have you had? 4
Y: Do you think love can last forever? the right love, with the right people. Yes
Z: Do you believe love can conquer all things? yes i do
1: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of? nope
2: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be? Dont date someone skinnier then you.
3: Do you think long distance relationships can work? Why or why not? Yea. because real love is above all things and can make it through any and all trials
4: What do you notice first about another person? eyes, the way they walk, and how they shake my hand
5: Do gay, lesbians, bisexuals or transgender people bother you? not in the least.

sub vs dom

I don't know what to do here... how do u tell him that as a individual who is very sexual, that i am a sub...not a dom. And that because i am a sub, that i am struggling to detach myself from my previous dom... and how do i explain to him how hard that is because what what kind of connection a sub has with her dom. How much trust and faith has to come from the sub to allow someone to have that much power of them?
And then after explaining that.. how do i make it clear that it takes a lot of time and patience to build that trust in a new person. And that the thought of showing my submissive side to someone new is terrifying. How do i explain that? Especially when people don't really grasp the whole sub /dom thing.
But think about it. Everyone falls into one category or another. You can't put two Don's together. Because then they will be to busy trying to get what they want out of the other person, instead of enjoying the sex. But they will never be statisfied because it became a power struggle.
Idk. How do i explain that?